It's not wrong to have friends who are boys. But if you're a teenager or older, it's not wise to have a boy as a best friend. Unless you would want to marry them! I have seen people who have had close guy friends who insisted they were just friends, and now they are married. So often either it turns into a serious relationship and marriage or only one starts to care and it causes a lot of hurt.
So it's best to only have a boy as a best friend if you both have marriage in mind. Remember to pray much about relationships and ask for God's wisdom. He knows the right person for you and can save you unnecessary hurt.
I don't think that is necessarily true. My Best friend, Jonathan and I are not planning on getting married and he is a strong believer.
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